Thursday, November 29, 2012

Christmas Candy Cane Cookies

1 cup sugar
1 cup butter or margarine, softened
1/2 cup milk
1 teaspoon vanilla
1 teaspoon peppermint extract
1 egg
3 1/2 cups  flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon red food color


In a large bowl stir together:
sugar 
butter
milk 
vanilla 
peppermint extract 
egg i

Stir in flour, baking powder and salt. 

Divide dough in half. Stir food color into 1 half. 

Cover and refrigerate at for 4 hours.

Saturday, November 3, 2012

ADHD increase in North America



A quote on a local forum and my reply....

"A report on the front page of today's Vancouver Sun newspaper reports that ADHD rates have tripled in the past decade. 4.6% of children in the U.S. under 19 took meds for ADHD. In the Netherlands the number was 1% while in Germany  it was .7 %. So what accounts for the much higher number in the U.S? Some experts are linking genetically modified foods for the increase as they are very common in the U.S. and Canada but have been banned in Europe. Seems to be there must be some rational explanation for such a large difference.

Pharmacare in Canada filled 312,304 prescriptions in 2011 while 94,251 were filled in 2000. Experts say the condition remains underdiagnosed.

  So it looks like we have another time bomb on our hands, just like Autism, and yet nobody seems to be looking for answers as to the why it's happening. Is it the rapid proliferation of wireless microwave emitting devices, genetically modified food or a combination of both? 

 The costs to our medical system, lost productivity, crime, and many other results attributed to these conditions will quickly bankrupt our already overburdened medical and justice systems." -bigbird

I don't think any of those things contribute to ADHD. I fully admit that I have ADHD, if I look at my family a few generations back. I think in Canada we do have kids diagnosed with ADHD that DO NOT have ADHD and that kids in Europe, who do have ADHD simply aren't diagnosed because they treat the whole child rather than place labels on everything. 

For example, one of my sons was forced to utilize our local youth mental health system and I was told over and over it was simply depression and anxiety. Which would be ok, accept that there are no real services available to help him. I had to push for over three years to get him proper assessments that I don't feel are available here. 

You can NOT diagnose adhd or a mental health concern with ONE 20-30 minute session. We spent three days in Vancouver before he was diagnosed with ADHD and a variety of neurological concerns.
OK great- so now you have an 'answer' what is a parent to do? There are no real resources to actually help the children here. There is one quality behavior therapist, but it is more about treating the family unit as a whole and I personally already implemented most of their suggestions into our daily life.
VIHA has a small amount of support available but it is more like 'respite'. When I went to MCFD, I was told my son would get additional medical services unless he was in care and they offered to send my children to a foster home each weekend so I could have a break. I didn't need a break; I needed supports for my son. And sending him from one place to another every weekend with different expectations sure wasn't going to help his 'anxiety'. I would be starting from scratch every Monday morning and he'd have serious trust and abandonment issues.

Just in this last 6 months have I finally found an actual counselor for my son who is actually teaching him skills he can use and helping him. To find this person (who I have to pay privately) I called EVERY single psychologist on Vancouver Island. I was told over and over that they do 'assessments' - I kept saying I have all the assessments; I need to know what to do know? Who will sit with me and help develop a plan that is individualized for him? Not just one that says here - take these drugs and hope for the best? Finally, I found one who said - here call this guy in **** *******

Treating the whole child means that all of these people would put the supports in place the child needs to be successful. The school, the health professionals, and the family. Our school system is broken and underfunded, yet they want to put all the supports for children with mental health issues into the schools, which means the parents aren't actually a part of the plan to help the child. Yeah, kids are in school 6 hours a day for 10 months, but these problems don't stop on June 15th and go on summer break.

The appearance of ADHD is increasing (in my opinion) here in North America, because the environment our kids are in each day highlight and increases the negative symptoms of ADHD. There are amazing parts of ADHD, and we don’t allow those to flourish. It’s a social issue within our schools, our healthcare system, and our society’s focus on the measurement of success is how much STUFF you have. If parents spent less time working to afford giant TV’s, computers for all their kids, brand new 40,0000 cars to measure their success in life, but instead measured it based on what sort of adults their children grow up to be, maybe we would see more of the ADHD kids succeeding in school and life because they would have the skills they need by the time the leave home to be contributing and outstanding members of our society who are willing to take the risks to make the world a better place (by giving up the need for STUFF).

Friday, October 12, 2012

First they came

First they came for the socialists, and I didn't speak out because I wasn't a socialist.

Then they came for the trade unionists, and I didn't speak out because I wasn't a trade unionist.

 Then they came for the Jews, and I didn't speak out because I wasn't a Jew.

Then they came for me, and there was no one left to speak for me.

~ Martin Niemöller was a German pastor

I shared this quote that I learned as a teen with my teenager this morning. He's heard it before but needed to be reminded. Highschool is a crazy place and I have been hearing odd little bits of info about the 'judging' teens like to participate in as they create their little niche groups. (disclaimer: I don't necessarily mean my child.)

I am a firm believer that our job is not to judge others for their beliefs or character but to support one another despite our differences. I know many other Christians don't share my belief in this are but the quote above by Martin Miemoller is a reminder of what happens when we don't stand up for those of us who may be a bit 'different' or those who don't share our beliefs.



Link from Zelda Boots

DW wants to be Link from Zelda for Halloween and today I tackled some leather Link from Zelda boots. We located a large mens leather jacket and some rubber boots from the local second hand store and using shoe glue and siccors we have almost completed his Link boots.

All we need now is two matching buckles to put around the top, which are apperantly an important part of any link costume:


Thursday, October 11, 2012

Baby Art


Ryanne's first masterpiece at age 12 months.

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Just how important is your child's education?

This evening I paid a babysitter so that I could attend my son's highschool PAC (Parent Advisory Meeting).

It's an exciting and yet scary time having your child start highschool. I know why I took the time to arrange for a sitter and to attend the PAC AGM; because I KNOW that my child's education plays a HUGE part in his potential to have a rewarding and fulfilling life. 

 Isn't that our job as parents? To ensure that our children can grow up and leave home and bcome healthy, educated adults who cannot just function in society but contribute.

I arrived and saw familiar faces standing in the hall outside the staffroom. Those from his elementary school PAC that I haven't seen for the last three years (we moved into a private school for three years).

The same group of dedicated parents who have put their children's education on the TOP of their parenting priority list, above soccer, above swimming, baseball, dance, and yes even HOCKEY. I have to say I really don't get it. One meeting a month. Just one meeting a month and out of over 1,000 registered students (many who have two parents) only a handful took the time to show up.

If you haven't yet, find out when your next PAC (or PTA) meeting is and attend. Canada doesn’t need parents to turn out more hockey players. Canada needs parents dedicated to education.

Daily Challenge

Last night I stumbled on Deepak Chondra's website (while searching for some inspirational Christmas ideas) where I discovered a Daily Challenge for wellness program. I love this idea. As a busy mom I don't have  allot of free time, but I am trying to make my health a priority in my life.

Today's daily task is;
Pick a perimeter - a building, your house or apartment building, or a shopping area - and walk it. 

So my challenge to you is - if you are a busy mom like this mom... stop by and register for Deepak Chondra's Daily Challenge. One small change can make a world of difference!